If thats acceptable behavior in the eyes of women, then I am definitely on the right track with my current girlfriend.
You are kind, even to those whom you do not care for. You are aware that you can love someone even if you do not like them. Being kind may be perceived as weakness or vulnerability by others, but you know that kindness is one of your strongest influences. If you can't say something nice, you have the control to remain quiet. Composure is the beauty of self-control. Life is always going to bring its challenges. Without a sense of composure it is easy to allow conflictual situations and relationships to unnerve you, but when you have composure you understand the concept of less equals more.
The less you react, defend, explain, become fearful or controlling the more command you have over a situation. Having composure allows you to stand tall with grace in the face of loss or challenge and not to be overly boastful when it comes to your success. Be willing to dare greatly in your life. It takes courage to love fully, to change yourself when necessary, to feel deeply, to leave love when it's scary and to chase your dreams with passion and an unwavering tenacity.
You are aware that to become courageous you must do courageous things. You also know it is not the loudness of your mouth but the depth of your character, to keep going no matter your circumstances, which makes you thrive. When you are self-loving you naturally possess a quiet confidence.
Your self-awareness, dedication to self-development and personal growth provide you the knowledge to succeed at nearly anything you seek. Because of your life experiences and inner depth, you can be certain positive things will happen in your life because you depend upon yourself to have the information and willingness to do the work necessary to get to your result.
You are clear and persistent about who you are, where you are headed in life and what you want from your relationships to be happy. In being deliberate people know where they stand with you. You get what you want in life because you are clear in saying what you want. You use each challenge life brings to positively refine yourself. This refinement keeps your life clean of negativity. Being deliberate keeps you pointed in the direction of your dreams, connected to your true loves and to living genuinely as who you are.
In being deliberate your life is not set up on pretenses. Who you are does not change from person to person or situation to situation. Girls who are smart and can take good decisions themselves are very attractive. A positive girl is able to love herself and, therefore, to love her man, she protects her inner happiness, joy and good mood, and this positive qualities give her a lot of energy which is very attractive. And another simple tip is — smile.
She is attentive, able to listen and give an appropriate feedback…guy will look forward to spend more time with this kind of girl. They are determined, strong and responsible…and most men can see them only as good business partners, and not as a loving soulmate for creating a family.
Men and women are very different, physically, emotionally and in many aspects — this is why they complete each other. When a girl behaves like a guy, she is more likely to be treated as just a pal, a friend and not a charming soulmate. Femininity can mean a lot of things: Especially in the beginning of relationship this quality can be really attractive.
Give him space for imagination and he will look forward to know more. A mysterious girl seems more interesting to most guys, as it gives them something to figure out.
But over-secrecy is not what I mean. Usually, if a guy looks for a life partner, he looks for a certain important trait of character — kindness.
In the case of longterm relationship, the good and attractive looks go onto second place and the guy falls in love with the inner beauty, good qualities and kindness of his partner. Only when your partner can fully and completely trust you — your relationship can be solid and strong.
When a girl is able to understand her partner and she can even support him in his endeavours or share his hobbies or his love of football, she will definitely be special to his heart. Noah is the prototype of what women desire in a man. I wish men would take notes while watching this movie. Men who are willing to makes fools of themselves to show how much they want to be with you. Ah, the power of the public grand gesture. Think of the Ferris wheel scene when Noah jumps on to introduce himself to Allie and ask for a date.
Men who are persistent. Unless she is completely turned off by the sight of you from the initial meeting, she will warm up to your persistence. It shows us that you are not easily discouraged, that you are willing to work hard for what you want, that you are ambitious, and most importantly, that you really want us. Men who only have eyes for one woman. I know guys usually face rejection and move on to the next girl with ease, and a lot of guys can like several girls simultaneously.
I guess the least you can do is make us feel like we are it. Think the opposite of the message in the song Mambo 9. It shows us that you are loyal, and that you see something in us that is different from all the other girls. Men who keep their promises regardless of circumstances.
Noah said he would build the house with the blue shutters, the wrap around porch, and the painting room. It shows us that you have integrity…. Men who do the loving thing even when it hurts.
Noah wrote Allie for a year without a response. Men who esteem themselves not because of worldly accomplishments but in the accomplishment of loving another deeply. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten. Men who really listen. I mean, you can tell he really listened because he remembered her wishes. When she said what she wanted, he looked at her intently, as if he were making a note in his mind. This shows us that we are up there on your mental priority list and that you value our thoughts.
Men who would tell the truth, risk hurting our feelings, and fight with us rather than withdraw and brush issues under the rug to preserve peace. I want all of you, forever, you and me, every day. It shows us that you care enough about saving the authenticity of the relationship to speak out. It shows that you are not indifferent. It shows that you are a man and not a doormat. Men who are realists. They believe that it will take work and that it will be hard. It shows us that you are willing to work at love and that hard times will not make you hardened.
Men who want us till death do us part. A couple of years ago, I asked a guy I dated what was the number one quality he wanted in a girl. I love thinking about the intricacies of dating, love and life. I share my tiny lessons in the hope that it helps you as you navigate the dating world. I thought this was an interesting article.
You can check it out here:. Drunken english - midterm report Entre 2. Men are strong physically, but a woman can be super strong on the inside. That may be fun for a little while…. Get out of your fantasy world and welcome yourselves back to reality. Paul… I did find that kind of love. It may be scripted but someone wrote that script, someone who had to find inspiration somewhere from reality.
They skipped their entire life together, all the hardships, but just the fact that they endured to the end is an inspiration. What is your name? I would like to use your information for an english paper I am writing but I need your name if I want to quote you.
Well I watch the notebook and usually just poop in my micorowave meals the ones that come with dessert are my favorite ; and so I watch the note book at least two times a week in my prefab home off of eightynine a, you know right by the honey mans health just like take a left and stay on that road..
So is that quote reasonable to use on someone you like. So theirs this girl who I watch come out of Sears at five once the sun is just starting to set and I think I will recite a quote from the movie when she is done with work, which one do you suggest using?
Cause i usually watch the notebook twice a week. I have always been interested in belly dancing. How come girls dont like me just because i am who i am. You hit on good points. I commend the valuable information you provide in your entries. I am really certain they will learn lots of new stuff in your site than anywhere else! Thank you for another amazing article. Where else would anybody get that kind of info in such a easy to understand way of presentation.
I agree with MidoriLei. Romantic love can last forever. After all, eternity has been placed in our hearts. This was a fantastic entry with advice that can lead a man to a succesful relationship. Sounds like what women want is a gentleman. Check out a cool blog about British gentlemany manners here: This is SO applicable to I feel like this about someone and behave accordingly.
She lets me adore her, and loves being adored, and she treats me well. And yes, I feel very well fulfilled as a person through loving S. But after 25 years of shunning life, thanks to S. My question to all you clever people is, what makes you LOVE a person enough to behave in this ideal fashion?
My bacon has already been saved. What could the future Mrs Scratch offer me to make me love her like I love S.? Is it because we love life, and living, and we love the person with whom we can do this properly and joyfully? I am a numbskull, please enlighten me. Has the good and the bad. Im waiting for my turn. Wish I dont wait too long and just watching those happy couples. I like just about every song on these. What is the matter with us? Kiss the Girl is a best, however.
WE even had that certain on my ipod. Pertaining to, like, heavy lifting along at the gym. The Notebook is lameass movie. Why does he love her so much? He seems to be obsessive in his desire for her. Because a relationship is a decision on both parties.
All this bullshit about the man constantly pursuing the girl, is for highschool level girls. Women who find this movie the best love story will set themselves up for a lifetime of disappointment. Her personality, her memories of their history, gone. She is essentially a shell of a person. So Noah is devoted to a shell because he is fixated on her out of duty or out of his loving nature, and she just happens to be the object of his fixation.
Spending all his time and energy and devotion to a shell of mechanical parts. And this demonstrates that the relationship is shallow Hollywood fluff. If Noah can be loving to a shell of a person, he could be loving to ANY other person. He must have his reasons for feeling this way. It must be more than just attraction.
One of the most magical things a person, two people, can have. A pinnacle of human existence. I would still want to take care of the woman I love even if her normal personality disappeared, because she could still feel pain and discomfort, and conversely, joy. I would still love her. If she died, I would still love her. If she hated me I would still love her.
The reason I love her so intensely is because I was the unhappiest person in the world, and she made it possible for me to be happy …it worked. It showed what a perfect fantasy guy Noah was. He loved her at first sight, then never stopped loving her all the times they were apart and all the way to the end when she had been taken by the disease.
That is why I called it emotional porn for women. Dream on, it will lead to bitter disappointment in real life. Just like porn for guys, who think all women are hot and ready for sex without any kind of emotional interaction, pure fantasy that demeans both parties. As for your heroic love, Scratch, I applaud you. Having somebody to love intensely is wonderful, but to place all your happiness in a person is emotionally dangerous.
All humans are flawed, so to worship another flawed being is to set yourself up for pain. You should seek happiness within yourself. Because life throws suffering at you. Even if your relationship is perfect, people grow old, get sick and die.
People you love gets taken away.
Be the girl who sees the best in people, but does not ignore the worst. Be the girl that can take her own advice. The 50 Best Qualities A Modern Girl Should Have is cataloged in Girls, Inspirational, Life, Life Lessons, Self-Esteem, Self-Improvement, Women, Womens Style. When a young lady or girl shows an interest in those that are broken physically, crushed mentally, or lost spiritually (sometimes, it can be a combination of all these emotions at the same time); it generates compassion that God showed to us. The best qualities in a woman are important to consider when choosing or seeking a mate and even when beginning a friendship. The best qualities in women could also be the best qualities in a person, but tweaked for qualities a woman should have.